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iloiuvis · Posted: Mon 18:53, 11 Apr 2011 Post subject: To the youth that will flow

a few days, is 22 years old birthday. ,18-22 season of the rainy season, those wonderful days of youth, about coming to an end. The young dream, the pursuit of the young, and ignorant of the affair, will be with the passage of time, the years of washing, sealing hidden in the depths of memory, or to stay at the time of the space. Anyway, once all in all, a beautiful, sad, naughty, embarrassment, is a life. When Try to remember, as long as know that I have lived this way, would be sufficient.
Life is like a leaf, from germination to the leaves, from light green, turquoise, green and then yellow, deep yellow, chlorosis, and then turned into Chunni, the ups and downs through all the experiences, incomprehensible words are hard to describe, and only piece of leaf before know best. Lines on the leaves is not the same as the way to go, like everyone, very different. Every road, every fork, the meet, made the choice varies. Who do not know what the road will meet people, what happened. Each intersection, the companion will encounter a different, everyone support each other, come together for some distance, and then to the next intersection, say goodbye to each other, but not sad, because the have their own aspirations and ideals, was just thinking towards the ambitious objective, that the separation is just a short get-together for a long time, or because of ignorance, not experience the kind of parting sad. However, when crossing the intersection too much, too much separation as experienced, watching the familiar or unfamiliar faces come and go, and gradually find that every intersection should be separated with the familiar people, and then talk to meet new partners , acquaintance, friend, and then re-encounter separation, ultimately, not many people have been together, or even none. Meanwhile back at their own way through, but familiar, of which very little can survive in the memories, How sad. Clearly has walked the streets, looking back, hesitated a blank, and the face of the next section of the road [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], have begun to feel powerless. Looked at the front, there is no end of heart in hesitation, wandering feet, If you have been down this road, and then go back to see only a blank, knowing that is the wrong route, wrong steps, but also to go, just silly pathetic. If for the other route, the road to see the scenery, meet people, what happened, would not the same, but the results will have two. Why not convert a little bit? But we are young, do not know it, because it is in her life to us.
youth, a very bright term. Everyone will experience the passion burning in those years, the childish mind, madness, the cynical way of doing things, are testimony of youth, whether on the inside [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], who is who's who, who is not who's who are not important, it is important that we have had [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], have had, they regret.

aapishe3 · Posted: Thu 10:49, 12 May 2011 Post subject:

Reprinted 2008-05-21 07:49 Source: Beijing Youth Daily

Sichuan earthquake,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], severity of the emergency before the crisis, people with psychological aid is urgently needed reconstruction. The face of housing collapse, the supply tension, aftershocks continue in the reality. Affected people not only need state support,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], military assistance, volunteers condolences; should also be self-rescue and mutual aid.
first phase: facing death to accept death when panic

so close from the time of their own, no one can truly do not panic. Feelings of panic thrown inside the body is undoubtedly an instinctive protection. Panic is not terrible, but the panic to the degree of influence of each individual is different. People died in the earthquake were the first to accept the reality is, the fear of being accepted. Tell yourself nothing to fear, the worst case does not have to face the right, I do not still remain unharmed; I'm terrified of death, but I'm not scared of death.

in psychology there, to accept and face the fear, often powerful than the blind that his or her own rapid heartbeat more easily bring out the tension and anxiety. Therefore, people often experience the death of those who died more than not as strong and brave is the truth.

second stage: the courage to actively stimulate

implied in the face of distress, weakness and courage are all human nature. Mentioned earlier accepted his weak side, not so he has been decadent, has been weak down, on the contrary to the spirit of a buffer and pressure release. When we can calmly face reality and accept the painful after the people have the courage then be activated. When we can glimpse into the nature of things, no longer blind, it will not easily be intimidated by the aftershocks. Instead, we actively learn to help themselves means of livelihood, so full of courage and heart. At this point tell yourself, risk will soon be over, I want the confidence to meet the status quo.

psychology that courage, calm and perseverance, in fact, everyone has. It was in the fight against weak, helpless,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], disappointed after the excitation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], emerged out of power. People in trouble tend to be inspired by the courage even to resist the disaster brought about by the plight of more realistic, such as food and water shortages, disease, pain and so on.

Phase III: Construction of the depth of love and a sense of belonging

housing collapse, property damage, death of loved ones, and so these people are the most fundamental breakdown in communications survival needs to be cut off, no doubt a huge panic. If survived, we often need to be sure whether the world abandoned. Psychology which so-called Often the victims by finding the whereabouts of their loved ones to find the whereabouts of friends, where their unit as soon as possible institutional linkages, and to confirm he did not abandoned. At this point, communication links become very important. Talk with family members even for a minute, even with a simple hug their loved ones, to give children what shallow touch ... ... they need love the expression of the determination of need for a sense of belonging.

psychology that, over the comfort and needs are unrealistic rhetoric. Companionship or just quietly let victims know that he was worried about you like. A message Pick up the phone and mobile phone at hand, the disaster area friends too need to hear greetings accent,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], too need to love, passed.

fourth stage: rebuilding a sense of control disaster mutual aid

a small playground can accommodate thousands of people sleeping in the open. Everyone in the dark of night, are in fact Xinhuang Huang's. Uneasy needs to be stabilized. Volunteer teams into the disaster areas of psychological line, you can reorganize all organized by volunteer mental comfort for everyone, a message of confidence to teach the scientific method of self-help and mutual aid.

nervous around too much attention is often caused by the spirit of the movements of high tension. When small groups are compiled, we take the initiative to mutual assistance, mutual comfort, companionship chat, it will shift attention from their own to others. We hope that common sense will perform better in front of others, then not only can help people to get the attention of dispersed ease tensions, but also restore their sense of independence. Since the natural disaster, we lose a sense of self-control, so whatever mutual assistance, reconstruction of control of our confidence. When the control surfaced once again,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you can fear, anxiety, control to the minimum.

fifth stage: the national theme of the next

sublimation must be the most powerful performance of the whole society and the state. Our airborne troops quickly to attack, the province high-speed fast response, rescue and supply continue to follow up. Coupled with the media reports accurately and quickly, no doubt will give people in disaster areas with confidence. When the front line leaders, the good news when the disaster after another. This is not just a good news, too need to hit people when they are all good mouth, they will gather strength. When countries make effective decisions for the victims and actions, is the greatest psychological assistance.